tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post7826810054810651638..comments2023-08-23T06:30:48.450-07:00Comments on Chude!: Seeing is Believing (Convoluted, But I Can't Help It ...)Chude!http://www.blogger.com/profile/04452863522535198765noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-45396963411634619962007-06-03T04:29:00.000-07:002007-06-03T04:29:00.000-07:00I hope so myself. Sadly, I think I have given up o...I hope so myself. Sadly, I think I have given up on him now. Thanks for dropping in!Chude!https://www.blogger.com/profile/04452863522535198765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-3109466573446618812007-05-30T12:10:00.000-07:002007-05-30T12:10:00.000-07:00Beautifully written... and sad. It's hard to make ...Beautifully written... and sad. It's hard to make someone realise their worth - as laspapi says it's one of those things you need to figure out for yourself. I hope your friend gets there soon...Daddy's Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14679564351145843434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-348635782329695732007-05-30T07:03:00.000-07:002007-05-30T07:03:00.000-07:00thanks. actually i am already taking thsi advice. ...thanks. actually i am already taking thsi advice. actually i like him a lot so it is not a difficult thing to do. and you are so right about a lack of self worth as the ultimate enemy. oh and feel free to gatecrash anytime you wish!!~Chude!https://www.blogger.com/profile/04452863522535198765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-50132908463124134402007-05-29T08:44:00.000-07:002007-05-29T08:44:00.000-07:00Well i think you should try and help your friend, ...Well i think you should try and help your friend, maybe you have been able to see what is wrong with him so you will be able to help. Try your bit, try real hard except he refuses the help blatantly. A Yoruba adage says when two friends enter a room and come out smiling, they have deceived themselves. Please continue being a good friend. If you belive in prayers, also pray for him. There's nto so much an enemy of progress as a lack of self worth. In as much as we should be grateful and humble, the success of today should not be the enemy of tomorrow's progress.<BR/>Sorry i gatecrashed, saw your name on so many blogs and just had to visit.<BR/><BR/>CheersWritefreakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03457464940195376970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-58644766443882727512007-05-24T03:03:00.000-07:002007-05-24T03:03:00.000-07:00@anon,thanks. sounds likje you know a lot about th...@anon,<BR/>thanks. sounds likje you know a lot about the industry. sure i dont know you? Actually, the Emem (Kush) idea is not a bad one AT ALL. Thanks for dropping in. <BR/><BR/>@laspapi,<BR/>The thing is everyweher i turn, movies 'unnecessarily' exploit sex. Every movie in recent times has had it: 300, A Perfect Stranger ... even a 'serious; movie like Last King od Scotland!! I have to have a very good reason to confuse myself that what I am seeing has an intellectual value. Cos if not, then we might as well all be hypocrites for turning our noses at pornography. To maintain my sanity, I maintain those have to be art!<BR/><BR/>@boa, <BR/>the day i become so 'surrounded by glamour that i forget about reality' is the day that i have become stupid. And may that day NEVER come! How you dey?! long time. <BR/><BR/>@afolabi, <BR/>cant reveal unfortunatyely. how you dey. will check out your blog. thanks for dropping byChude!https://www.blogger.com/profile/04452863522535198765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-86966065964660611072007-05-22T18:40:00.000-07:002007-05-22T18:40:00.000-07:00Wow, that was touching and just curiousity, whose ...Wow, that was touching and just curiousity, whose this not so confident star..guys do visit my blog http://afolabipieceofmind.blogspot.com/ and leave your comments.Afolabihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811670308614659267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-28744710576074681752007-05-22T00:58:00.000-07:002007-05-22T00:58:00.000-07:00Chood, how far? This is very insightful. It's "ref...Chood, how far? This is very insightful. It's "refreshing" to know that someone with roots so deep in the glamour business is still so in touch with "true reality"... Way to go, Chood! I like this article, and like your attitude...that ability to be surrounded by so much glamour and yet still be able to see it all "from the outside"...Toluwalopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13570101798244926793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-69682406739573422552007-05-19T21:54:00.000-07:002007-05-19T21:54:00.000-07:00can you teach self worth, chude? Everyman must fin...can you teach self worth, chude? Everyman must find it in himself or not at all. You can't impose yours on him, no matter how hard you try.<BR/><BR/>On a lighter note, I read your profile and description of "Basic Instinct" and "Monster's Ball" as having arty sex scenes. You pervert, chude, don't attempt to "artify" soft porn. Halle Berry tried the genre again in "Perfect Stranger", but come on, she can't fool us 2ce. Sex sells and it ain't art, not even the Karma Sutralaspapihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15623856064617482177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-45914438612372496162007-05-19T12:29:00.000-07:002007-05-19T12:29:00.000-07:00I think this calls for an intervantion...if he is ...I think this calls for an intervantion...if he is all you say he is then, give him some home truth and especially from people who can help him. I remember reading somewhere about one of the ladies from KUSH...the lawyer I think, who runs some organisation for setting 'creative people' in the right direction. I think she is a friend of yours so you can hook it up for your friend's sake. I hope he gets help! Keep up the good work "Angel Man"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-79164033488904819072007-05-18T10:00:00.000-07:002007-05-18T10:00:00.000-07:00@fineboy, na me supposed to dety ask you where you...@fineboy, <BR/>na me supposed to dety ask you where you dey! When evertybody don dey threaten harakiri if you no post new gist - since april!!! thank God you don come out of your hole sha. how you dey?!<BR/><BR/>@anonymous,<BR/>sadly i can't tell. the invasion of privacy would be tactless. thanks for dropping in<BR/><BR/>@bella<BR/>I hear you! It's really sad, yeah. thanks for dropping in. how you dey?!<BR/><BR/>@laspapi,<BR/>a man cannot give what he does not have?! You mean this guy will never be able to have self-worth?! Can there be people like that?!?????<BR/><BR/>Will post teh thnigie on sunday abeg. Have a problem with posting new stuff. I think itys the connection. On sunday I'll be somewhere with hi-speed internet (i hate lagos! i need fast internet!) <BR/><BR/>@mystories,<BR/>Let me say thsi now: i cherish comments. They always have a way of reaching inside me - and because they are so heartfelt. Thanks. Incidentally, I and the guy had a convo two days ago and he said teh same thing about 'being his angel'. I dont know though. I also have my own life and my own issues. But we are all 'ordinary people' looking for a way to go. Of course you can repost. No problems at all. Hope all is well with you<BR/><BR/>@onyeka,<BR/>been reading up on you!!! and now i see ya blog!!! you are 18?! I hate you!!!lol. Congrats man. You're doing good. Good. Good. No worry, dem no go sack me for office!lol<BR/><BR/>@anon2<BR/>thanks a lot. and the thing about your sister was so sweet thanks tjhis anon thing frustrates me sha. i wish i know who is who!lol.<BR/><BR/>@nigeria,<BR/>thanks. 'never give up on a friend'... i'm listening! thanks for dropping in. how you dey?<BR/><BR/>@anon3<BR/>you may be right. i should certainly hope that is the problem. but dont think that is since i spoke to the guy two days ago and it just me broke me down further,. you think anyone but dbanj is shit. hmm. <BR/><BR/>@idemmili<BR/>i trust you babe!!!lol<BR/><BR/>@ezaha, <BR/>the post you commented on is so waaaay down i am scared you might not see my response!!! So here ghoes: '@ ez'aha,<BR/>Thanks thanks thanks for all this plenty praise o!!! Which one be meeting me as naturally as possible? Abeg decode!!!! And wetin concern my date with Nigerian Idol o?!??? Thanks for dropping by sha. I enjoyed reading your post plenty!!'Chude!https://www.blogger.com/profile/04452863522535198765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-82137262698544430912007-05-17T16:17:00.000-07:002007-05-17T16:17:00.000-07:00I can smack him around for you if you want. someti...I can smack him around for you if you want. sometimes people need a really good shake to wake them up.Idemilihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00763485139867070256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-39862549815971155692007-05-16T22:52:00.000-07:002007-05-16T22:52:00.000-07:00This was definitely not d'banj. So anyone else is ...This was definitely not d'banj. So anyone else is SHEIIT! <BR/>Maybe he's just not that into you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-32344118003965644222007-05-16T12:50:00.000-07:002007-05-16T12:50:00.000-07:00You just gotta keep trying to show this dude the w...You just gotta keep trying to show this dude the way men...You gotta' make him see that strong conviction you have about him. Never give up on a friend men; make some time, sit him down and yarn some common sense into his head...the turning curve might be around the corner; just keep trying Chude!!!NigeriaPolitricks.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16578556996392257868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-61346444562461679852007-05-16T11:28:00.000-07:002007-05-16T11:28:00.000-07:00i actually agree with laspapi. maybe this guy is t...i actually agree with laspapi. maybe this guy is too far gone? you said he is older than you for pete's sake! my fear with these people is that they drain you of your own essence eventually. you sound like a pretty strong character from your posts (in fact i downloaded one of your past posts for my lil sister) but you need to be certain first that you can survive sticking with him. and like mystoriesmytestimonies says, you write so very wellAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-91718230214077042642007-05-16T03:36:00.000-07:002007-05-16T03:36:00.000-07:00Hi Chude,I have actually missed out some things si...Hi Chude,<BR/><BR/>I have actually missed out some things since I left the blog. Well, you said you went to my blog and didn't see anything, I wonder! You should have missed out also then...LOL...<BR/><BR/>Well, you can check Onyeka Nwelue on Google then to find something...<BR/><BR/>Huh? You should be careful. They might sack you for blogging behind the desk! LOL<BR/><BR/>OGNOnyeka Nweluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03296863572474244062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-52802864340375381212007-05-15T20:23:00.000-07:002007-05-15T20:23:00.000-07:00you just spoke to me in so many ways....i use to b...you just spoke to me in so many ways....<BR/>i use to be like ur friend in so many ways...<BR/>it is God's grace that got me out from that mentality ....<BR/>i will be praying for ur friend... <BR/>my advice to u....dont give up on ur friend....keep telling him the truth...<BR/>u can be the one to drag him out of his hole/pit...<BR/>maybe..U ARE HIS ANGEL... <BR/><BR/>u write so well...i want to repost some part of this write up on my blog ..but will post ur blogsite ..let me know if it is ok with u ....mystoriesmytestimonieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18080688804712249342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-69223774306917428412007-05-15T17:52:00.000-07:002007-05-15T17:52:00.000-07:00I don't think you can save this man, Chude. Let hi...I don't think you can save this man, Chude. Let him be. A man cannot give what he does not have.<BR/><BR/>Post the Naija Blogger's Book issue, please.Just go on my blog, cut and paste.laspapihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15623856064617482177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-35993295810650157102007-05-14T11:21:00.000-07:002007-05-14T11:21:00.000-07:00Wow! That was really deep.Maybe its time that you ...Wow! That was really deep.<BR/>Maybe its time that you gave your friend sme tough love and have a hard-edged discussion with him (just like your 'big sister' had with you)...<BR/>It hurts me to see people like this.<BR/>SAD!Bella Naijahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17802817682057488331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-51067352131901185092007-05-14T09:18:00.000-07:002007-05-14T09:18:00.000-07:00This is deep isnt it. I wish I could guess who thi...This is deep isnt it. I wish I could guess who this star friend is - since you obviously wont tell. Your friend isnt alone in this mess is what I will add at this point.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6236598786477480691.post-56902122742957952102007-05-14T08:35:00.000-07:002007-05-14T08:35:00.000-07:00Great post man. In America they say "The music in...Great post man. In America they say "The music industry is shady..." Guess it's the same everywhere. God help your friend o. Chude Chude! My main man, where've you been?Mr.Fineboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09478853352258797245noreply@blogger.com